What Is Love?

"What is love?
Baby don't hurt me
Don't hurt me
No more..."
(Haddaway)

In 1993, everyone was asking "What is love?" and, for Haddaway, it became a gold record, but the Bible has never had a problem answering that question.

"This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins (1 John 4:10)."

This is agape love. This is sacrificial love. This is love that knows no bounds, no ends, no parameters whatsoever. This is love that goes on forever and ever.

This is the fantasy love that when we were little girls, we dreamed of being princesses, and our prince would come and sweep us away on his mighty stallion, and we would live happily ever after. Then we grew up and we weren't princesses, and when our Prince did show up, he didn't have a mighty stallion, and he didn't have any money. He was just a normal guy, but we didn't find that out until after we married him.

Life has a way of knocking fantasy out of us, and knocking reality right smack into our faces. And reality can be a very rude awakening. But no matter how rude life can be, no matter how many smackdowns life gives us, there is always that one constant that is not a fantasy, and that is the Creator of all reality, Jesus Christ.

The Bible addresses love more than any other subject: God's love for us, our love for God, our love for one another.

"And He said to him, 'You shall love Adonai your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind.’ This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it, ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself’ (Matthew 22:37-39)."

Love is not something that human beings came up with on their own. The idea of love, what love should be, how we should love one another, and the different forms of love are not man-made ideas, no matter how we've managed to pervert those ideals. The love of God is something that preceded even the creation of the world. The love of God is something that takes a long time for us to even try to comprehend because it is so far outside of our purview.

We have a very limited view of what love is. We have a very skewed view of what love is. And we have a very perverted view of what love is. But biblical love is very clear and very precise. And it is also a command from God.

"'And you shall love Adonai your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind, and with all your strength.’ The second is this, ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’ There is no other commandment greater than these (Mark 12:30-31).”

The love of God is a sacrificial love. And that is the kind of love we are to have for one another. When we act in love, when we act in that sacrificial form of love towards our friends, our family, our children, our co-workers, our neighbors, the people in other cars on the road, the people who cut in front of us in line at the store; when we act in the love of God towards everyone we meet, we are fulfilling the Commandment of God. When all of our speech, and all of our actions, are out of that sacrificial love, then we fulfill God's commandment.

“But love your enemies, and do good, and lend, expecting nothing in return. Then your reward will be great and you will be sons of Elyon, for He is kind to the ungrateful and evil ones (Luke 6:36)."

This is the test. How do we treat those who are evil, unkind, ungrateful, slackers, lazy, those that we consider the dregs of humanity? In God's eyes, prior to accepting Jesus Christ as our Lord and Savior, we were like those people, yet He loved us. Unconditionally. So much so that He willingly left the glory of Heaven, took on human form, and died on the Cross.

"(Love) does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs (1 Corinthians 13:5.)"

Love God. Love others. Love yourself.​