~Matthew 9:9-13
Tax
collectors in Jesus’ day were not anymore popular than they are today. In fact,
the term “tax collector” was synonymous with corruption and they were often
lumped together with the term “sinner.” Hanging around tax collectors often
meant people would judge that person to be evil and underhanded, so when Jesus
allowed “many” tax collectors and sinners to sit at the table with him, the
Pharisees were in a tizzy. How dare someone allow such scum to sit at the table
with them and then defend them when questioned about it? The Pharisees were a
bit self-righteous and self-important, and given the choice of being in the company
of tax collectors or Pharisees, I’d choose the tax collectors too.
There
are a lot of people we see on a daily basis that we pay no attention to, or
look at and dismiss, or we think our time is too important to spend on
someone we deem beneath us. We might think we don’t make snap judgements about
people, but we do. We all do. We all like to say we don’t judge and skin color
doesn’t matter, but what do you think when you see someone with tattoos, long
beards and hair riding motorcycles? Do they scare you because they’re “bikers”?
What about people with different colored hair and piercings all over their faces?
Do you think they’re ridiculous? Or what about someone walking into Walmart in
their pajamas? Or someone who is so overweight they must use a riding cart
because they can no longer walk any distance? Do you think they need to just
put the Snickers™ back and have some self-respect? Or someone with a child who
is physically or mentally impaired? Do you feel pity for them? Or the homeless?
Do you think they just need to stop using drugs and get a job? Or someone who “looks”
like they just walked out of prison? We might say we don’t judge but who wants
a convict living next door? Who wants a drug recovery house in their
neighborhood? Who wants anyone they don’t like or understand or looks different
or had a different type of life living in close proximity to them? We judge
people.
“If you love those who love
you, what benefit is that to you? For even sinners love those who love them. And if you do
good to those who do good to you, what benefit is that to you? For even sinners
do the same. And if you lend to those from whom you expect to
receive, what credit is that to you? Even sinners lend to sinners, to get back
the same amount. But love your enemies, and do good, and lend,
expecting nothing in return, and your reward will be great, and you will
be sons of the Most High, for He is kind to the ungrateful and the
evil.
Be merciful, even as your Father is merciful (Luke
6:32-36).”
Loving
those who love us is easy. We love our kids because they’re ours and no matter
what mistakes they make, we still love them. But loving those we don’t know is
a little more difficult; showing loving kindness and mercy to a stranger we’d rather
pretend doesn’t exist is difficult. But that’s exactly what Jesus did in so
many instances in the Bible. He loved the sinners, and we are supposed to be
like Jesus and love everyone. But how is that possible? How do we love the
unlovable? I think first, we need to understand what love means. In this
instance, we are talking about “Agape” love, godly love that doesn’t love based
on merit but on the fact that God loved us before Christ wiped our slate clean.
When we recognize that no sin is greater than any other, that our sin was as
great as any convicted person in prison, or as any tax collector, drug addict,
hooker, or biker gang, perhaps we can begin to look upon others as God looked
upon us. Agape love is full of compassion, mercy, and forgiveness. Agape love
is a verb, it shows action. Mother Teresa, who showed true Agape love to
countless people said, “We shall
never know all the good that a simple smile can do. Love cannot remain by itself – it has no meaning. Love has to be put into action, and that action is service.
The most terrible poverty is loneliness, and the feeling of being unloved.”
“A new commandment I give to you, that you love
one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another. By
this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one
another (John 13:34).”
Read
Psalm 32-36; Weekend reading Psalm 37-47
©2018 Marie McGaha